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Can You Ditch the Inner Critic? Overcoming Perfectionism

May 07, 2024
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Can You Ditch the Inner Critic? Overcoming Perfectionism

Perfectionism. It can sound kind of admirable, right?  We all want to do our best, create excellent work, and be successful.

But for perfectionists, the pursuit of flawlessness becomes a relentless taskmaster, leading to stress, anxiety, and even procrastination. 

So, can you break free from this cycle?  Absolutely!

The first step is awareness.

Perfectionists often have a harsh inner critic constantly nagging at them. 

Pay attention to your self-talk.  Are you using words like "should," "must," and "always?"  Challenge these thoughts!  Replace them with more realistic and encouraging phrases like "I'm going to try my best," or "This is a learning experience."

Next, set achievable goals. 

Don't aim to write the next great American novel in a weekend. 

Break down big goals into smaller, manageable steps.  This will give you a sense of accomplishment and keep you motivated.

Perfectionists often fear failure.  But guess what?  Everyone makes mistakes! 

Reframe them as opportunities to learn and grow.  Embrace the idea that "done is better than perfect."

Here are some additional tips:

Celebrate progress, not just perfection. Acknowledge your efforts, not just the end result.

Set time limits. Avoid getting bogged down in the pursuit of flawlessness.

Reward yourself for completing tasks. Positive reinforcement goes a long way.

Seek help if you need it. A therapist can teach you valuable tools for managing perfectionism.

Remember, overcoming perfectionism is a journey, not a destination.  Be patient with yourself, and celebrate your victories along the way.  You've got this!

 

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